girl date

Now that Ruby's all grown up and living on her own, time with her is even more precious.
I pulled her out of daycare last Friday for a girl date.  It was a gorgeous day and we filled it with fun.
I didn't stop to take pictures of the whole thing…. but our first stop was Centennial Park.  We've been there a million times (not including the times I visited as a kid, having grown up just around the corner), but this time was probably the most fun!  It was a special girl date with my rapidly growing best big girl Ruby Melinda Grant!

I love you and I miss you and I like you.

-mom 

forty seven weeks

Forty seven weeks.  This is how long Ruby wants to stay at Grandma and Grampy's house…. until our new house is ready.  Both kids stayed in Lower Coverdale on Friday night for a special treat and it was the next day that she decided to boycott Sackville.  I have a feeling it was my parent's innocent drive past our old house with the kids that triggered this abrupt change of heart.  She wasn't ready and probably never will be.  

It's heartbreaking to think about Ruby in turmoil.  I spoke to the folks at daycare today and they reported she's not herself there either.  

Just three more weeks everyone.  Hang in there!  

Love and hugs, 

Mom oxoxox

Miss Ruby.

Leo in the hammock - his new passion.

Some pretty flowers from our walk.  

Saturday in Sackville

Day one of first weekend in Sackville - Not as great as I had imagined.  

I'm not sure what I really had in mind, but for some reason I thought we would all have the time of our lives at the Market this morning.  I soon realized that today was no different than any other day and being at the Market in Sackville didn't really make much of a difference in the longevity of our kids' ability to maintain their cool in public.  I blame the 25 minute wait for smoothies and coffee and hereby swear NEVER to go to Bridge Street Cafe again.  

This is Leo being torn away from the park, after the market.
Not so good at departures.  

This is Ruby waiting for Leo to get into the car.
It was hot and she was feeling the effects of choosing
not to wear the summer outfit I had picked out.  

Later on, we went to Fort Beausejour.  The kids thought it was going to be totally boring but 5 seconds out of the car they were off and running.  It was awesome!  Ryan and I haven't been there in a long time either so it was great to be back.  I love that place.  Next time we'll bring the kite (and mosquito repellent).

It was an amazing day, despite a few (normal?) hiccups with toddlers.
Here's hoping we come out of this phase alive and well.

What will tomorrow hold for the Grants?

Leo says "see ya!"  

prologue

The Grants have moved to Sackville.  Temporarily.

Let's back track here for a second…..
First and most importantly, WE SOLD OUR HOUSE!

So long 116 Hedgwood Drive. 

It's been a long time coming and as I sit here writing this, I'm still somewhat in a daze.  It all happened rather quickly (when it finally happened after basically 3 years of trying to sell the house, which isn't quick, is it?)  Our buyers requested a quick close and we didn't argue.

Finding a new house to move into was quite a challenge.  There are a LOT of crappy houses on the market and when we finally found what we thought was our forever home, someone else came in and made an offer on the same day!  They won.  Heart broken, we continued our search and found our new home at 8 Basswood Court.  It's wonderful and awesome and everything that we want…. BUT we have to wait a whole 4 weeks to move in.  

Can't wait to meet you!  

Meanwhile… we're staying in Sackville with Ryan's parents who have graciously offered us literally every empty nook and cranny in their home.  It's going to be an even tighter squeeze when Aunt Trisha and her two kids come for an unexpected visit for 10 days!  Get our your cam corders folks and let's make a movie.  This is bound to be a whole lot of fun.  :)

All things considered…. I think I speak for both Ryan and I in saying that we are enjoying being back in Sackville.  This town has a lot of charm and I'm so excited to spend our first weekend here with the kids.  I have so much planned…. the Market tomorrow, Fort Beausejour, the Waterfowl Park, Beech Hill Park…. thank goodness it's a 3-day weekend.  Perfect timing Queen Victoria.  I just hope everyone is well behaved.  Is that too much to ask??  

simple pleasures

Simple Pleasures…

Waking up before everyone else and enjoying a hot cup of coffee and magazine in complete silence.  Watching birds frolic at the feeder.  Getting dressed for your day not including socks in the outfit.  Entering a room to find this….

I've always had a difficult time just relaxing and not doing anything at all.  When the sun in out, I feel like I should be outside enjoying the sun… doing something productive.  Especially on a weekend.  When it's snowing, I think I should be outside enjoying the snow… shovelling or making a fort.  I think it's gotten worse since having kids because I want to make sure they're doing something too.  And, let's face it, there's never a shortage of chores on the list. 

Last weekend, the sun was out and I had my usual guilt on about everyone not being out there enjoying the much anticipated warmer weather.  "We should be riding out bikes… going on a hike in the woods… playing at a park" were the thoughts in my head.  Then I turned the corner and found both kids having a fabulous time reading a book with Ryan.  They were captivated and in complete silence.  Ruby, of course, was dressed in princess attire and Leo, our snuggle bug, was cuddled up on Ryan's back.  It was beautiful.

Truth is, the kids don't want to be on the go all the time and reading a book with their dad is doing something.  Looking back, I can remember several instances where I struggled to get the kids dressed and outside to do something or go somewhere.  When it takes 2 hours to convince a child to get ready (and practically gives me a nervous breakdown in the process), I gotta think it's not worth it.  I'll remember that next time.  It may be a challenge but I'm going to go with the flow enjoy not having to be anywhere or do anything at all.  

Hey… you can learn a lot from kids!  

Thanks Ruby and Leo.  

I love you more than a million ice creams!  

Mom  oxox

the Easter Mommy missed

I just put away the Easter paraphernalia and cleared the tulip petals from the mantle.  I completely missed Easter this year.  From Thursday after work to the crack of dawn on Tuesday, I was in bed with the Energizer Bunny of fevers!  It just wouldn't give up!

I missed my mom's Easter Dinner on Friday, which was also Auntie Robin's birthday celebration.  The kids and Ryan did go and enjoyed the games, fun and food.  I got a doggy bag which included the most delicious piece of birthday cake…. lemony coconut and whip cream… YUM!  It was divine!  Perhaps it was extra delicious because I've been avoiding carbohydrates as of late…. so that little blast of sugar was super fine.  Mmm…. just thinking about it makes me salivate.

Before heading to the Dr.'s office on Saturday, I managed to muster the energy to get some eggs decorated.  We did pretty good!

This garland was a project from a week or so ago…

I had almost given up on Easter arriving on schedule this year, so with much regret, we sent Ruby to my parent's house on Saturday night for a sleepover.  I was feeling so awful that I just couldn't imagine hiding eggs and having any fun with the kids the next day finding them.  I figured we would do the Easter Bunny thing on Monday, hoping the kids would never know the difference……

This is the breakfast that I finagled for Leo…. although he didn't much appreciate it.  I thought it was ok.  ?

Mostly out of guilt, I think, by bedtime Saturday night I decided that the Easter Bunny just couldn't be late so we got Ruby home first thing Sunday morning and they kids had their egg hunt with the rest of the nation.  I watched from the couch and took a few photos…..

For the second year in a row, we noticed a drastic change in Leo's behaviour after eating chocolate eggs (basically for breakfast).  The bad behaviour continued into the day, so… next year, the chocolate is gone.  We're going to get creative around here on Easter and start a new tradition that doesn't include chocolate.   I think we'll all be happier as a result.

So… after cleaning up the tulip petals and pollen….. I'm glad to say this Easter is over.  Let's move on to Spring now please.

all about February 2015…...

…. it Felt long.  Getting blasted by back to back winter storms seemed fun at the time but the excitement wore off after storm number three, 150 cm of snow and very cold temperatures.   I think we have almost 500 cm out there now and regretfully, it's not over yet.

….. Entertainment was on the menu as Ryan and I made it to the Capitol Theatre not once, but twice!

….. t'was a Bad flu season.  The kids both got sick and so did we!  More than once, in fact.

….. Ryan went to Graz.

….. SUccess!!  Leo wears his eye patch for amblyopia treatment on a daily basis.  The girls at daycare got it on him first attempt so he wears it all day from 9 - 4.  The minute he sees one of us at pick-up, it's off.  The Ophthalmologist says his eyes are improving already, which is wonderful news.  The hope is to get his 'lazy eye' balanced in strength with the good one.  At that time, if it is still turned in, we will consider surgery.  I still haven't managed to get a photo of him wearing his patch.  It's on my list of things to do.  He's onto his second prescription with his glasses and they are strong!  My boy can't see.  Scary as I can't relate because I've never needed glasses.  I did buy my first pair of reading glasses a while back, but they are just for reading the small print on medicine labels, etc….

….. SAdly, his transition to a Big Boy Bed hasn't been as successful.  Despite our best efforts and the creation of a new fictitious 'sleep fairy'….. he's only been in that bed for about 3 hours alone.  We're running out of ideas and patience on this one.

….. Ruby has also developed a sense of independence when it comes to clothing.  She started swopping what I had laid out the night before for skirts or dresses so now I just put out skirts or dresses to save time.   She can get dressed totally by herself and at night, puts her dirty clothes into the hamper.  Good girl.   She particularly likes her fancy clothes and recently went to daycare in her Christmas best!  I say 'why not'!  Give those dresses some miles or they'll just go to waste.

….. Yes!!  I haven't changed a diaper in about, well honestly I can't remember.  It's been at least 6 months, maybe 8.  We donated our entire stock of diapers and pull-ups to the daycare before Christmas and haven't looked back!  He's pretty independent with the task as well…. leaves the room for a minute and comes back gleefully announcing, "I pooped".  "Well who wiped your bum, Leo?"  "I did!"
OK then.

So there you have it.  I had a lot to catch up on and probably missed some major points, like this for example:   Leo has developed an early determination in regards to his clothing.  Ruby didn't protest my clothing choices until she was well into her fourth year but Leo insists on picking out his outfits every day and tries to dress himself 50% of the time.  It appears as though he strongly dislikes matching pyjamas and prefers switching things up.  Why not?  Go Leo, go!

Lastly, before I go,  Ruby has a funny streak.
While it's proving difficult to get on camera… here's a sneak peak.
I love you Ruby.  You're adorable.

Here are some more random shots from February….

Leo's first visit to the airport to see Ryan off to Graz. 

Snow. 

Valentine's Day lunch

Valentine's Day breakfast. 

And here's Leo before his bed was set up.

See you in March!
ox